“Watching the person you love fall out of love with you is the worst pain the human heart can go through”
– my heart is breaking and you’re the one holding it /// t.f. (via allgedonic)
– my heart is breaking and you’re the one holding it /// t.f. (via allgedonic)
Anxiety is:
- being scared of everyday things like cars for no apparent reason
- thinking you’re about to die because of one small pain somewhere
- almost passing out because you’re about to speak to an audience
- genuine headaches because you’re overthinking so much
- wondering who on a public bus is about to go insane and kill everyone
- feeling scared in crowded places
- rocking back and forth because you suddenly feel restless
- knowing that you can’t physically do something which should be simple
- being disturbingly aware of your own mortality
- worrying everything you’ve ever said to anyone is wrong somehow
- being scared to talk to people in case you offend them
- apologising for things you haven’t done
- feeling you’ve humiliated yourself when you haven’t at all
- never feeling certain about any decision
- never being satisfied with your appearance in case you look stupid
- checking yourself in the mirror ten times before going anywhere
- physical pain or discomfort caused by worrying
- doubting everything you’ve ever done and ever will do
Anxiety isn’t:
- “I’m nervous because I have this exam tomorrow!”
- “sometimes I worry about stuff.”
- “oh no, I have homework tomorrow I haven’t done!”
- funny, cute, a comedy trait, a ‘feeling’, general nervousness
People suffer from their anxiety everyday. Don’t invalidate their worries. Don’t make them feel stupid. Don’t tell them they’re not being logical. Don’t tell them that it’s okay because everybody worries. Try to understand them. Help them. They need that more than anything.
its weird how you can have friends, but also have no friends at the same time
– Nicole M. (Soulmates are Sad Poets and Other Such Mysterious Beings)
I want to emphasize the importance of surrounding yourself with people who take care of you unconditionally and feel genuinely proud of your entity floating in their lives.
- Aries Signs: These people are big flirts when they’re single, but once they find that special someone, they’re committed to that person and that person only. If you’re looking to keep them around, keep the relationship fun and exciting. Don’t develop too many routines.
- Taurus Signs: A Taurus is nothing but dedicated. They are sometimes a little too dedicated to someone. They look for a close, honest, and loyal relationship. But because they are so committed to you, they expect you to return the loyalty!
- Gemini Signs: A Gemini won’t always cheat on you if they lose interest but they will flirt with others. Even if they’re head over heels for you, you still may find them checking out the hot man/woman on the other side of the room in that tight outfit. But don’t worry! They may have their fantasies, but they’re coming home to you at the end of the night.
- Cancer Signs: This sign takes every relationship very seriously and will think twice before ever cheating on you! They always consider your feelings and how you’d react if you ever found out.
- Leo Signs: A Leo has a hard time keeping a very long relationship. They’re constantly changing and growing and their attitudes toward relationships change. Sometimes they want to settle down and other times they don’t.
- Virgo Signs: A Virgo is more in love with him/herself than they ever will be with someone else. Sometimes they don’t consider others’ feelings and will act without thinking. They need someone to open their eyes and calm them down. They need someone to show them how to be serious and faithful.
- Libra Signs: Libras’ opinions about someone (especially their mate) are always changing. They love you, then they want to leave you, then they want to be with you, and then they’re ready to be with someone else. Usually they end up staying with someone for a while but they struggle with flirting with others. They’re big flirts!
- Scorpio Signs: A Scorpio is usually very loyal but also insecure. Because of this trait, they make any relationship difficult. If it becomes difficult, they won’t always leave. They’ll stick around but may find someone new. However, this isn’t true for every Scorpio.
- Sagittarius Signs: These people never know what they want. They need someone who can keep up with them, for they’re always on the run. As much as they’d like to have a long and serious relationship, they can’t always stick around and commit to just one person.
- Capricorn Signs: If you read the “Cancer” section above, it’s the exact same for the Capricorn. Tradition, commitment, and seriousness = a Cap.
- Aquarius Signs: This may be the most unreliable sign when it comes to relationships. Though these people are sweet, they’re also very confusing and indecisive. They can’t decide if they want to be with someone or leave them.
- Pisces Signs: A Pisces always feels lucky to have any partner they can get a hold of, so they won’t let you go without a fight. They’re cautious in any relationship and very committed. They’re looking for one person and one person only.